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"It's expensive to go out to dinner, so I totally understand why that might not a possibility every week, or even every month. But if you're ordering in every night and then eating on the couch, it might just mean laziness has set in. "Don’t wait for an anniversary to put some spark back into things," says Bonnie Winston, a NYC-based celebrity matchmaker and relationship expert. "Try getting dressed up and going out for a date night instead." Even if it just means walking around the park."


"The best part of a relationship is getting to that stage where you can be super comfortable with each other. Be careful, though, because this can be a slippery slope into a passionless situation. As Winston tells me, there's always room for a little lingerie or whatever else makes you feel sexy, all in the name of reigniting that spark."


"We all need to veg out, and that's OK. But things can get pretty damn stale if you both make a habit of staring into the TV without acknowledging each other. As Winston says, the lack of interaction during a TV binge can be a sign of a lack of passion. So make an effort to spice things up. "Try going out to a show," she says. "Or an activity where you can interact and share opinions."

Original Article: 11 Daily Habits That Indicate There's No Passion Left in a Relationship  published on Bustle